Even The Single Mannequins In Wichita Are Desperate!

“I do not know where to meet quality, available singles.” “I am not into the bar scene anymore or at least I do not think that is a good place to meet a mate, so where else is there?” “It seems so hard to meet singles.” “All the good ones are either taken or live too far away.” I hear those types of statements and grumblings from my single friends and clients a lot!

This mannequin is taking dating into her own hands!



















Let’s review what steps she is taking to get some attention and maybe a date and see what we can learn from her:

1.She has positioned herself in a window that gets a lot of visibility….location, location, location!
2.She posed in an alluring manner and made her facial expression sultry. Bring it girl!
3.She chose the attention getter color, red. Go get ‘em sweetheart!
4.She then decide to really put it all out there by showing a little skin, but did not show it all…leaving a little to the imagination!

Do we humans living in Wichita also need to take such drastic measures to find that special someone?

One article on the net tagged Wichita, Kansas as the 2nd worst city in the nation for dating. http://www.bestplaces.net/docs/studies/DatingCities.aspx

I do not believe we have to take action as bold as this mannequin, but I do agree we have to take action. In fact, I recently heard the following quote which confirms my belief: “Expectation that's not followed by action is not expectation... it's just hoping; and hoping has never achieved very much.” Mike Dooley

I also do not believe we are the 2nd worst city for dating. In fact, I have clients all over the world and I hear the same exact frustrations from them about not knowing where or how to meet singles. I bet you know at least one person who met their spouse in Wichita and are happily married.

I do believe there are a number of other things holding each single person back from finding the relationship of their dreams.

For some it may be they do not know what the ideal person or ideal relationship is that they desire. I mean knowing without a doubt, 100% sure, no question! Or it could be that they do not know themselves, or not knowing the opposite sex….I mean really, really knowing!

For others it could be limiting beliefs created over a lifetime, most unknown to the person. These must be brought to the surface and busted through!

So, you ask, what the heck do I do? This is a question many of my single friends and clients ask me! Here are some general suggestions I can give you without coaching you and understanding you exact situation:

• Give away what you want. Set up other singles you know.
• Start doing whatever you can to be a whole, happy, satisfied single….then and only then will you be ready to meet someone.
• Pick one specific thing you love to do and join a group or club that does that very thing and make it your New Year’s resolution to be very involved and committed to it this year.
• On Valentines, buy yourself a gift, treat yourself to dinner, or write yourself a love note. Love yourself! (I quit smoking five years ago on Valentine’s Day to show myself how much I love me.)
• Email me if you want a sheet that shows you the steps to designing a dating strategy unique to you.
• Simply ask someone out!

If you do not like my suggestions, then by all means, do not do any of them. Keep on doing what you are doing now and keep on getting what you are getting now!

OR

Change your future forever! Pick one thing off of the above list and start it in now! Be courageous and brave and take that step to do something new that will bring you new results! Take what we will now call “mannequin risks”!

How important is it to you that you meet that someone special? What are you willing to do to make it happen?

I know you can do it!

Your Dating Strategist,

Ronda Welsh
316-409-4431
ronda@resolveittogether.com


P.S. The first person who emails me back and correctly identifies the store in Wichita, Kansas where the photo was taken, will receive two complimentary coaching telephone sessions regarding dating or relationships.

Where Do I Meet Quality, Available, Attractive Singles?

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Let's start with some insight on why it might be hard for you to know where and how to meet terrific singles.


Oh wait, one tidbit of information you must know first before going any further.....it does not matter where you live. Singles all over the country, all over the world actually, come to me with the same exact quandary. I repeat....it does not matter where you live!


Okay, now let's explore what could be in your way of meeting top notch single men and women:


If you believe that all the good ones are taken or that all men are jerks or that all women are drama queens then that is exactly what will keep showing up in your life. Test me on this! Actually do not test me on that part. Test me on the part of trying to replace those thoughts, comments and beliefs with ones that will get you the results you are desiring. This can be as hard or as easy as you make it. You likely have beliefs blocking which you do not even know are there. Trust me and I will help you start busting through the ones that are not serving you!


Here is a big belief that may be blocking women: "all men just want to do is have sex."
Here is a big belief that may be blocking men: "all women are gold diggers."


Those and many others can be tough to destroy and replace, so let's start simple. For the next two days whenever any negative thought comes into your mind about dating or men or women, I want you to stop, cancel it out and replace it with:


"I am now meeting amazing single women/men (whichever you are looking for) everywhere I turn."


Do not just think it, say it out loud, write it down and carry it with you if you have to. Whether you believe it or not yet, just keep thinking and saying it. Start noticing what happens. Pay attention and take mental notes. Just by committing to try this there will already be a shift in your results.

My blog will not just be about giving you my opinion, my blog will be about giving you information and then actions steps to move you forward in the dating world. I can write all the best dating advice in the world, but if you do not practice it, it will not help you. If you are really serious about dating right now, take the action steps I offer up and then comment on the results you get.


Get to dating right now!