Friday, October 22, 2010

Group Coaching for Singles EVERYWHERE



Hi, it’s Ronda here.

If you are now in the relationship of your dreams disregard this. If you are going to be spending yet another holiday season single and alone, read on.

If you could wave a realistic magic wand and be in the relationship of your dreams six months to a year from now, visualize exactly what that would look and feel like for you.

If every other method you have tried has failed in finding the relationship of your dreams, the program I am about to explain is for you.

I am sending this offer to you because you have most likely had a complimentary coaching session with me about how to find that special someone. At the time of our session you were unable to hire me as your personal one-on-one dating coach. I am adamant about helping every unmarried person who has a desire to be in the relationship of their dreams, so I came up with a way to reach more singles quicker. (If you have not had a complimentary coaching session and would like to try that before you sign up for the group coaching then email me asap and I will set that up immediately.)

If today as you read this you are no closer to finding “the one” than you were when we last spoke, then the program I am about to describe is for you!
After coaching hundreds of singles I have come up with a group coaching program to make it easier for more singles like you to invest in. There’s just no way I can work with everyone one-on-one. Plus, not everyone can afford my current 1-to-1 coaching rates of $249 to $499 per month.

Following are the basic details of my new group coaching program:

• The sessions will be done live via telephone.
• The sessions will be done once a month or twice a month (depending on the group you choose.)
• The sessions will be an hour and a half long.
• The sessions will be $47 for the once a month group or $97 for the twice a month group (depending on the group you choose.)
• The sessions will be with 10-15 other singles.

Each call will be jammed full of my best ideas, strategies, tricks, and techniques for more successful dating.

Following are the more juicy details of my new group coaching program:

• You will receive information about dating from a dating coach >me
• You will receive a workbook each month to download and complete.
• You will receive input from other singles on the calls.
• You will receive encouragement and support.
• You will receive better dating methods, skills and tools.
• You will receive change and movement towards finding that special someone by being held accountable.
• You will receive access to me in between the group calls via email.
• You will receive an audio recording of each call so you can listen to them as many times as you need.

Each month you will have actions steps to take to move you towards the relationship of your dreams. You will be supported by me and the rest of the group to be sure you complete such steps.

Following is a brief description of what will be covered each month:

Month one:
We will work together so you are crystal clear on exactly who the ideal person is for you.

Month two:
We will work together so you become powerfully confident about the person you are and what you have to offer someone else.

Month three:
Together we will bust through all of the limiting beliefs, doubts and fears that are stopping you from being in the relationship of your dreams.

Month four:
We will work together so you have not just an equivalent of a high school diploma or a bachelor’s degree on everything there is to know about the opposite sex, but a Masters or Doctorate!

Month five:
Together we will determine what the “rules” of dating are and what methods of dating will best fit you. We will work together to create an on-line profile that will generate better results than what you have yielded up to now.

Month six:
We will work together to be able to deflect rejection so you do not create more baggage to carry to the next relationship. We will also work together until you master rejecting others in ways that do not leave residue that spills over into your future relationships.

Month seven:
Once we know who you are looking for, who you are, what is holding you back, all you can about the opposite sex, how you want to date, and the best ways to end relationships we will create specific, measurable goals and an action plan to achieve them.

You may choose to be dating the entire seven months we work together or you may choose to wait until you finish the program. Either way you will be on your way to finding that special someone and having the relationship of your dreams!

For faster results you will want to sign up for the package with two calls per month.

PRICING AND PACKAGES:

PREMIER GROUP COACHING PACKAGE:
$97 per month for twice a month group = $679
If normal price would be $2,614.50
If you pay for all seven months in advance the discount price is $630.
The calls for this group coaching package will take place from 6:30 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. CST the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month beginning November 9th.

BASIC GROUP COACHING PACKAGE:
$47 per month for once a month group = $329
If normal price would be $1,307.25
If pay for all seven months in advance the discount price is $280.
The calls for this group coaching package will take place from 6:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. CST the 2nd Thursday of each month beginning November 11th.

My 100% happiness guarantee applies to these group programs. So if after 30 days you are not completely happy and satisfied then you can get a complete refund and out of the commitment.

I am only launching two of these group sessions starting in November 2010. What a better way to spend the winter months than preparing for a summer of dating that special someone!

There are only 30 total spots available for the groups so sign up TODAY! BEFORE I EVEN GOT THIS POSTED I HAD TWO PEOPLE ALREADY SIGN UP, SO THERE ARE ONLY 28 SPOTS LEFT NOW.

HOW TO SIGN UP:

Step 1:

Email the following information to Ronda@resolveittogether.com to register:
• Your name;
• Your email;
• Your phone number;
• The city and state you are in;
• The package you are registering for (Premier or Basic); and
• Answer the following questions:

1. How long have you been single?
2. On a scale of zero to 10 how important is it for you to be in the relationship of your dreams?
3. What are the biggest dating challenges you face regularly?
4. What would you like most to accomplish through group coaching?

Step 2:
Go to www.resolveittogether.com
Click the Payment tab up in the right hand corner; and
Choose one of the four payment options and pay depending on the package you chose.

Step 3:
Watch for confirmation email that will confirm your registration and advise you of how to prepare for the first group coaching call!

I cannot wait to work with you and share in your joy as you experience more successful dating and move toward the relationship of your dreams!

Until our first call,


Happy Dating,

Ronda Welsh, Your Dating Coach
Helping singles remove the doubt from dating!
www.resolveittogether.com
ronda@resolveittogether.com
http://daterightnow.blogspot.com/
316-409-4431

P.S. While you are waiting for the group coaching to start there are some great tips and dating information on my blog: http://daterightnow.blogspot.com/

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Dating Tips #6 & #7





Dating Tip # 6
The woman lets the man know she is interested by flirting (see future tips) and the man always asks for the date.


Dating Tip # 7
Whoever asks for the date is the one who pays for the date (if the woman wants to offer to pay once in a while or cook dinner later into the relationship that is fine, but for the most part the man always pays). All of the dating tips I give are for “successful” dating. You may agree or disagree with them. You may choose to follow them or not. You will have more success in dating if you choose to follow the tips I give. Another point you need to know is that there are always exceptions to everything. But they are exactly that, exceptions, not the general rule of thumb that works the best overall. There are proven reasons why the man always asks for the date and always pays for the date. Here are the references and the information I gleaned from them that confirms this:


WHO PURSUES AND WHY (Dating Tip #6):


The Bible
Proverbs 18:22 (New International Version) - He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.


Mars and Venus on a Date – Dr. John Gray
“Men pursue and Women flirt. To create a necessary attraction to move a dating couple through the five stages of dating, men and women must maintain complementary roles. To create a relationship, a woman must be careful not to pursue a man but to be responsive to his pursuit.” http://home.marsvenus.com/


He’s Just Not That Into You – Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
“Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking.” “Just because you like to lead doesn’t mean he wants to dance. Some traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason.” “You are good enough to be asked out.”
http://www.amazon.com/Hes-Just-That-Into-Understanding/dp/068987474X


Marriable (taking the desperate out of dating) – Hayley DiMarco and Michael DiMarco
“Men lose interest quicker when women call. And it’s in direct proportion to how much they call. Deep down, men know women want commitment – maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but the fact remains that more women want commitment than men, and probably sooner rather than later. So every time a women calls, she gives a ringing reminder that she’s desperate for commitment.” “And the plain and simple truth is, in the early stages of dating, men feel intimidated by women when she acts like a man, doing all the pursuing. But if he’s not calling, it’s less about intimidation and more about straight men not wanting to date men no matter how pretty they are.”

“At first a guy might like a woman calling all the time. He’ll be flattered. But the thrill of the chase ends prematurely and leaves a bad taste in his mouth when he’s the one being pursued. It’s like winning the game in the first move – it’s boring. Guys like the challenge. They like the game, so don’t let them win on the first play. It’s like you’re playing hide-and-seek and you’re afraid the guy isn’t going to find you, so you hide in the middle of the room. Ooh, what a rousing game that would be. Focus on the fact that you want to play hide-and-seek, not on just being found. Give the guy the time to enjoy the game.”
http://www.hungryplanetmedia.com/


The Manual – Steve Santagati
“by allowing us to pursue you, you are catering to our atavistic desire to hunt.” “the more work we do, the more invested we are.” “Men can’t handle aggressive women for several reasons” two of which are: • “They feel emasculated by women who seem more confident than they are; and • They like to feel they are pursuing or hunting you, and if you are too aggressive or available, it takes away from them.” “Overall, you want to be a little aggressive if that’s your nature, and then let him come to you. Don’t deny a man his desire to hunt you down. “ http://www.badboysfinishfirst.com/


Dating for Dummies – Dr. Joy Browne
“I bet even with God as the go-between, sooner or later Eve expected Adam to pony up and find the courage to ask if they could take a walk in Paradise.” http://www.dummies.com/store/product/Dating-For-Dummies-2nd-Edition.productCd-0471768707.html


WHO PAYS AND WHY (Dating Tip #7):

Dating for Dummies – Dr. Joy Browne
“You asked. You pay.” “What paying means:
• You’re investing in this relationship….no matter how briefly;
• You’re not cheap…..on any level; and
• You’ve got class and style…..”
http://www.dummies.com/store/product/Dating-For-Dummies-2nd-Edition.productCd-0471768707.html


Steve Santagati
“Latins not Dutch – Latins are lovers, not the Dutch, so don’t be cheap. Pay for the girl. If you’re the fem fatale on the date, offer to chip in and say thank you when he declines your offer.” http://www.sceneboston.com/2010/10/by-bad-boy-steve-santagati/


Marriable (taking the desperate out of dating) – Hayley DiMarco and Michael DiMarco
“The rule is, the one who asks, pays. And since you are the man and doing the asking, guess what? You’d better be prepared to pay. If you aren’t, a woman will complain about you to her friends for weeks. You will become the brunt of all jokes if you ask her to pay on the first or even the second date. Nothing screams whimp more than a man who won’t pay. In fact, if you ask her to pay or to go Dutch, then you might as well have started the date with the words, “ I only want to be friends” or “Dating me is going to be a drain on your purse, count on it. “ Because that’s what asking her to open up her wallet means.”

“The equality-seeking guy might not think that asking a woman to pay could make him look desperate, but oddly enough, it does. Compared to the “plan and pay man,” the “let’s go Dutch” boy paints a the picture that he obviously hasn’t had a lot of successful dates. The woman instinctually knows this, and though she might feel a bit of disgust for him, she also might temper that with a bit of pity. “
http://www.hungryplanetmedia.com/


Greg Behrendt
“First date dos and don'ts - "It's Just A First Date prescribes that you play to win," says Greg Follow these first date dos and don'ts: 4) Let him pay” http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/1431156/We-give-a-sneak-preview-of-Greg-Behrendts-new-dating-book-with-tips-on-first-dates-and-relationships.html


Dr. John Gray and Victoria Michaels Rogers (Ms. Rogers is author of The Automatic 2nd Date):
“You are his guest, he will pay (unless you asked him out then it is not really a date anyway). By paying for your meal, your man feels good about himself by being a provider and protector. It makes him feel needed. Do not take that away from him, especially on the ever-so-crucial first and second dates. Dr. John Gray puts it this way, “When a man receives the message that she does not trust him to fulfill her needs, he feels immediately rejected and is turned off.” Refusing to allow a man to pay for you is not simply being polite or considerate; rather it’s revealing a mistrust of your man’s ability to pay for you tonight or ever.”
http://home.marsvenus.com/
http://www.mantokeep.com/


Whether you take it from me or one of the afore-mentioned experts, I hope you get the gist of why the man asks and pays. If nothing else instead of continuing to do what you have always done and get what you have always gotten, test the theory out to see if you get different results. The main result will be both the man and the woman feeling better about themselves. How can you lose if that is the case!


Until next time…..


Happy Dating,


Ronda Welsh, Your Dating Strategist
Helping singles remove the doubt from dating.
http://www.resolveittogether.com/
ronda@resolveittogether.com
http://daterightnow.blogspot.com/
316-409-4431