Having a G.E.D. or High School Diploma will not do! An MBA or PH.D is a must!
Whether you are male or female, 19 or 55 years old, if you are not achieving success in dating you are going to have to go back to school!
If you are relying on family examples, advice from friends, past experiences and television as the sources of your knowledge regarding the opposite sex then you are at the Drop Out level of education. The more fulfilling you want your dating experiences to be the higher the level of education needed.
The level of knowledge you gain regarding the opposite sex is in direct proportion to the results you can expect. Start where you are and work your way through each level: Drop Out, G.E.D., High School Diploma, Associates, Bachelors, Masters and Doctoral.
Trade schools or certificate programs should only be used as Continuing Education Credits after a formal education.
You will use all of the same tools to obtain your O.S.D. as you would in a normal education setting: study, read, write, research, attend class, internship, etc. Those tools translated to options in the dating world are as follows:
- go on dates with all types of the opposite sex, soaking up all you can about their mannerisms, likes, dislikes, characteristics, habits, feelings, etc.
- read every book and article on the opposite sex;
- go to every workshop or seminar about the opposite sex or relationships;
- go to a therapist or dating coach;
- interview happy couples;
- keep a journal of what you learn; and
- do everything you can do to learn all you can about the opposite sex.
You will never "Graduate." Your O.S.D. will expire and no longer be valid unless you are always learning about the opposite sex. Your continued success, even once you are in a relationship or married, will require you to get Continuing Education Credits consistently.
Every man and woman who is single has the desire to be in a fulfilling relationship, but not everyone will do what it takes to learn all they can about the opposite sex to ensure success. Don't be a drop out get to studying!
Until next time…
Happy Dating,
Ronda Welsh, Your Dating Strategist
Helping singles remove the doubt from dating!
www.resolveittogether.com
ronda@resolveittogether.com
316-409-4431
P.S. Post a message on here each time you learn something you did not already know about the opposite sex.